Not been in sch since tue til today . Doc say im got virus :( Sorry cant blog much as im using my phone to access . On tue , Happy birthday to kaixin :]
P/S: miss everyone & love him ;D
23 August 2009 / 5:37 PM
1. Let her get all her anger out ! Let her cry & sob , she'll feel much more better (:
2. Be totally on her side & say tht it is her ex loss .
3. Do smth spontaneous tht will make her laugh . For example , watch a "Youtube" funny video .
4.Encourage her to tink abt the positive aspects of their break up . - e.g. - more freedom , the chance to meet a new person for a fresh & exciting relationship .
5. Discourage her frm tinking tht all men are evil or fickle . Nt everyone is evil , when just one person hurts you .
6. Discourage her frm feelings of guilt too . At some they're bound to start tinking 'I was a bad person ,' or 'I'm a bad person - tht's why he dumped me . Why did I say tht ? Why did I do tht ? I'm scum . I shld call him up & let him knw tht I've finally come to terms with my own vile nature - maybe if he sees tht I'm no longer in denial they'll believe I'm willing to change ...' Tis is a bad idea ! If he have dumped u - he are probably no longer concerned wif whether she can change or not . Ur fren may feel tht they've finally learned their lesson - & tht's a positive thing - but tell her tht should try and apply what she have learned to a new relationship .
7. Remind her tht she's likely to start putting their ex on a pedestal , focusing only on the good stuff & filtering out the bad . Nobody is perfect , & no relationship is perfect - so helping ur fren focus on or rmb those imperfections will keep her grounded in reality .
8 . Tell her it's a well known fact tht time always heals . The thought tht their suffering will naturally come to end one day can speed tht process along .
9. Remind her tht the sooner she forget the past & start building a positive future based on today the better .
10. Give ur fren a hug (: To put a smile back on her faces , u jus need to exercise some humour .
Note: •Comfort ur fren every time she seem down .
•Make her laugh every chance u get . Especially if her ex is ard .
18 August 2009 / 7:50 PM
Zhiyang & Aijia didnt make it for nxt round ): Both of u tink positive . Jiayous for final okay ! Aijia finished filming 企鹅爸爸 , wanna watch . Now chionging for my coming exams ): I've learnt lots lots of things thru my life . I realised , Im always like tat no matter wad . When my anger stop , i'll still treat tht person well . How stupid right ? But I'll rmb how tht person treat me .
Dreamed smth so funny , I really wan laugh ;D Can't wait to watch "Don't Forget The Lyrics" ! Oh ya , here to wish ANNA a Happy Birthday ;]
P/S: Only love those who rlly love me <3
15 August 2009 / 8:00 PM
Jus wanna everything to be stop & forget it . I don like to be frens to everyone til like tat . Wanted to be happy ! (:
Today met up wif Chun Kiat at plaza sing . I reached early , I went to look for W995 . OMG ! It's like so hot , I mean the phone . PS , AMK Hub & Compass Point no stock . I called up all tis outlet . Im so lucky man . Hg Mall left 1 set silver . I ask for reserve . Saw Qin Nee shopping ard & here he came .
Im like so paiseh , cos aft so long lost contact . I duno can I still communicate wif him as before . Haha , nw he's much more joker . Making me laugh . Sitting down for 2 hrs then we was like chit chatting . He wan meet me up cos he wan me teach him . LOL ! We also realised tat ... Im the one studying not him .
My mum & sis accompany me to purchase my phone . Finally got it :D Used my saving to buy my phone agn . But , I love my phone so much ! Using my phone tmr .
Anyway , gtg watch my shuai ge "F4 Show" (: Good Night ~
P/S: Thanks so much , BFF ! Loves you !
14 August 2009 / 10:30 AM
Aft tinking over & over agn since wednesday til today . I cn understand u're angry cos I didnt suggest anything . As u knw , Im always very quiet . Dont like to say much . I felt bad abt it so I wanna search smth to help up wif u . I put in effort to find out . It's not easy as wad u all tink . Overheard it & was abt to cry out yet control my tears . Marlene called up & I started to cry out frm my heart . Mum & ahma see me crying in tis way , they're heart pain . They're rlly angry tht ppl bully me & stuff to make me cry .
Hearing wad u all say abt me & I realised smth ... Why u wan backstab me & even slander me ??? I really really hate frens who treat me tis way . But I used to it so I jus let u say wadever u wan . & why must the rest believe it without tinking first ? I cnt be bother wad he said but I bother wad u said . Especially hurting is u said wadever I do it's rubbish . Im not angry wif u seriously , Im rlly DISAPPOINTED ! If will to be u putting effort & heard I say tat , how will u feel ?
When im happy , I'll be very cheerful , laughing all over ard . When im angry/moody , I wont want to talk to anyone at all . When im really sad , I'll cry it out to make myself feel better . Sometime my temper may be very bad but over-all im okay . My characters & manners are good but I may not look pretty . Everyone can be my fren , no matter did u ever hurt me & etc . Once a person hurt me , I'll stay away til my heart recovered . They're jus fren to me , nth much . I wont talk tat much as b4 . I can always be everyone's listening ear & be a secret keeper . Once I promised , I wont say out even one day u hurt me badly . So now , how u all wan see/treat me , cherish me or not ... I'll leave it to u .Hope u'll make a right decision ((:
P/S: Beause Im Stupid !
12 August 2009 / 2:10 PM
Im a quiet girl who observe everyone . I trust everyone , sometime i'll share . Once a person broke promise .... I wont be so stupid to trust tht person agn . No matter wad , u promise it , u cant break it .
Wad a liar & backstabber ! I jus wan to be fren wif every single one . Now I even suspect wad u said last time . Last time I really duno who backstab me . If is u , I wan apologise to her for mistaken . If is her , I wan apologise to u for suspecting .
Go & say wadever rubbish u wan , alright ? Jus FUCK OFF frm my side , if u continue . Don't deny it , I got ear to hear everything . If ppl choose to belive then jus go ahead lah . Hey ppl , use ur brain & think twice abt it okay . Im disappointed but not angry cos it's not true . FYI , Im not a person who is good for u to bully !!!
P/S: Thanks for being by myside ((:
11 August 2009 / 5:15 PM
While going to bus stop someone whistle . It was my ah beng shuai ge + my kor ((: We was talking til I miss my bus twice ):
I jus don feel like talking much anymore . Tmr got class photo taking in the morning . BEG test postpone to mon . Got to chin up ! Anyway , gf do rest well . Take care alright . Hope u can get well asap & go back to sch [:
Starhub give me $50 voucher ^^ Saved $50 & aft sat cn get SE W995 (: Sat meeting Chun Kiat study for BEG .
Im finding a job which im interested in :D I wanna work in Mediacorp or Music Sch ! Mdc I can work as Production Assistants . Yiqing recommend me General Assistants . But chances is low cos all GA are still ard . Hope mdc need GA so I got a chance to try .
P/S: Mr. LOL , I miss u so much !
10 August 2009 / 10:30 AM
Today got to chin up for my coming tests . Need to spend whole day reading notes ): Hope I can do well for my BEG test agn ((: Chiong ah ! Hwee Fang , Jiayous Jiayous !
Enjoyed Zhiyang's singing in 超級星光大道 !
P/S: Thinking of Mr. LOL ;D
09 August 2009 / 8:30 AM
Happy 44th birthday , Singapore !
I'm proud being a singaporeans [:
HS Dar , happy 17th birthday !
Stay happy . Loves you alots <3
P/S: I love SINGAPORE !
08 August 2009 / 8:15 PM
Today went mediacorp with Sk & Jeremy ((: So long didnt go mdc since CSS3 Grand Final . Go watch 我要唱下去-Don't Forget The Lyrics ! Went to get ticket & my name was listed first . Was wondering will yiqing be there to guide ? I cn feel so I predict tat he'll be in the studio . Always go theatre , its first time gg to studio .
Oh my god ! I cn predict so well :p Haha . Indeed yiqing is inside , I heard his voice . We was the last few to get into the studio . Smth happened , I was like what ! Paiseh ! Yiqing saw me . He said "hi hweefang" . Using the mic infont of everyone *shy* . Asking me do I wan to sit near the stage . No thanks . LOL , he make me so paiseh .
Anyway , was quite fun wif yiqing around :D Kym Ng , Quan Yifong & Jeff Wang will sing . They sang so many I only knw 'Bo Le' , haa ~ They was looking at the answer for the song . Now then I knw , it's like play cheat . LOL ! But at least they won themselve $25,000 (:
Walking out of mdc , I saw Aijia on bus . She was filming last episode of a drama . She's good in singing , dancing & acting ! Was smsing wif her til I reached home . Jiayous for ur One Million Star 5 too ((: Make singapore proud tgt wif Zhiyang ! Zy congrats for getting into nxt round :D
Got to take my dinner now , very hungry . Aft tht need to watch my ideal bf show ^^ I'll end here for today , good night friends !
P/S: Im super happy today ;D
07 August 2009 / 5:45 PM
He is Kim Sang Bum (Kim Bum) His birthday is on 07 Jul 1989 .
I like his smile cos its so charming . Even he didnt smile , he look cute . Nxt day of his birthday was mine ((: So cool . Our age gap only 3 yrs ^^
And
Kim Jeong Hoon (Kim Jung Hoon) In chinese 金桢勋 / Jin Zhen Xun . His birthday is on 20 Jan 1980 .
He is shuai & sing very well (: 2007 saw him in mediacorp . And , Luo Zhi Xiang (Xiao Zhu) Oh my god ! He's my taiwan idol .